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Have an Introverted Dog? Here’s How To Help Them Be More Confident

We love our furry best friends for their waggy-tailed, happy-go-lucky approach to life. Our dogs are like little bundles of optimism on four paws, ready to greet the world with a cheerful smile. But that’s not always the case. Some reserved dogs prefer to watch life from the sidelines rather than being a part of the action. An afternoon at the dog park? No thanks. Hanging out at a party? Pass. These shy pups defy the stereotype of the “typical” dog, but that doesn’t mean they’re abnormal. Whether through nature, nurture, or a combination of both, some dogs just happen to be loners.


What Is an Introverted Dog?

"Introverted dog" is a catchall term that encompasses many different types of canine behavior. For example:

  • A puppy who hangs back and doesn’t play during socialization class might be considered shy.

  • A dog who retreats to a bedroom when guests visit could be thought of as reserved.

  • A low-energy rescue pup might be considered an introverted dog.

“Introverted dog” can include any timid or seemingly “antisocial” behaviors that fall outside of the reactions we typically expect of our dogs. That said, reserved dogs might only act withdrawn in certain scenarios, such as when they feel overwhelmed. Shy dogs might be perfectly happy in environments where they feel comfortable, such as at home or on familiar walks around the block.

Why Are Some Dogs Shy or Introverted?

Most pet parents adopt a new dog with the best intentions, ready to do everything possible to help their new best friend grow into a well-adjusted, confident dog. But it’s important to understand that both genetics and life experiences play a role in the way a dog’s behavior develops.

A dog’s temperament is influenced by a combination of different factors, including:

  • Traits inherited or learned from their parents

  • The amount and quality of early socialization

  • Their environment

  • Ongoing socialization as the dog matures

  • Their level of daily exercise

  • What they eat

All of these can play a part in how a canine personality develops over time.

Does Breed Play a Role?

While a dog’s breed isn’t a guarantee of behavior, some breeds are known to be more reserved than others. Dogs who were bred to work solo, such as livestock guarding dogs like Anatolian Shepherds and some working group dogs like Akitas, can be more introverted than other dogs. That said, there are always exceptions to breed-specific behaviors, so it’s possible for the usually aloof Shar-Pei to be snuggly or for a typically outgoing Golden Retriever to prefer their alone time.

What Does an Introverted Dog Look Like?

Nervous dogs can exhibit behaviors that range from shutting down to being seemingly aggressive. The level of reaction can vary depending on the intensity of the trigger. This means that a shy dog might cower if the thing that’s frightening them is at a distance, then resort to barking and growling as the scary trigger gets closer in an attempt to keep it away.

Typical shy, nervous, or frightened dog behaviors include:

  • Cowering

  • Hiding

  • Avoiding eye contact

  • Low posture

  • Tucked tail

  • Lip licking

  • Yawning

  • Flattened ears

  • Whining

  • Pacing

  • Trembling

  • Barking while backing away

  • Low energy/no energy

Some shy dog behaviors, such as avoiding eye contact and yawning, can be tough to notice. It’s important that pet parents take time to observe their pup and get to know their dog’s body language. It’s easy to assume that a quiet, low-energy dog is feeling OK, but those types of “shutdown” behaviors might be masking anxiety.

How To Help an Introverted Dog

Want to help your shy pup gain some confidence? The following tips are for both ends of the leash, so you and your introverted dog can learn to navigate the world with less stress.

1. Check Yourself It’s tempting to try to model bold behavior for your shy dog, but being boisterous can backfire. Instead, when your dog seems uncomfortable, speak in a soft voice, move slowly, and observe your dog’s body language for insight into how they’re feeling.

2. Be Your Dog’s Advocate Let your dog set the pace for interactions with others. If you know your dog doesn’t enjoy meeting people during walks, intervene before well-meaning strangers come over to say hello.

3. Use Positive Reinforcement Training All dogs benefit from positive reinforcement training, but reserved dogs in particular require the confidence boost that comes with this science-backed methodology. Avoid using any training methods that employ harsh verbal or physical corrections. Training should always be a fun, positive experience for your dog.

4. Play Confidence-Building Games Play training is a stealthy way to help your shy dog feel less anxious—after all, it’s tough to be worried when you’re having a good time! Games that tap into your dog’s natural instincts, such as “find the treat” or “find the toy,” can encourage your dog to ignore potential stressors and focus on the fun.

5. Begin a Desensitization and Counter-Conditioning Program This combination helps dogs form a new association to stressors by linking them to something positive. For example, if a dog is nervous around men in hats, pet parents can plan a training session with a man wearing a hat at a distance that’s far enough away to not evoke a fear reaction in the dog. Feed the pup a series of high-value treats while the dog observes the man at a distance—this helps the dog begin to connect the scary person with special goodies.

6. Consider Hiring a Certified Trainer or Veterinary Behaviorist Feeling overwhelmed? Consider working with a trainer to help design a confidence-boosting program. Look for a professional who uses positive reinforcement training and is willing to work with both your dog and you.

7. Love the One You’re With You’ve got a shy dog, and that’s OK! If your pup doesn’t seem overly stressed in your everyday life together and their behavior doesn’t bother you, it’s perfectly fine to carry on. Your dog doesn’t have to interact with strangers or other dogs to live a rich and fulfilling life.

By following these tips, you can help your introverted dog become more confident and comfortable in various situations. For more pet care advice, visit k9reproduction.com.




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